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Back in the year 2006, I traveled to Canberra for a medical school interview. My plan was to arrange a place to stay when I arrived, but when I arrived, a major event was happening and every single youth hostels and affordable lodging were completely sold out.

Hailing from the city-state of Singapore, I thought maybe I could spend the night at the airport – but soon learned Canberra airport, unlike Singapore’s, does not operate all night. With no idea what my next move should be and getting a bit desperate, I caught public transport and found myself drifting towards the casino, thinking I could pass the evening in an establishment that was open 24/7. Admittedly, this plan in the ideal condition for acing a crucial interview the next day, however, being a broke student, a pricey hotel was out of reach.

The world needs more folks like that woman.

Apparently, I appeared lost as a female student noticed me wandering around the city and asked whether I needed help. I explained my predicament and without hesitation she said I could sleep on a spare mattress at her university residence at ANU – a perfect solution, considering that was where the important interview would take place the next morning. She went further by offering some food: one of the filled rolls she had taken home her evening job. This gave me warm shower facilities and a protected spot to rest to spend the night.

In retrospect, I now understand what a big chance she accepted as a woman inviting a guy who was a complete stranger sleep on her floor. Back then I existed within my male privilege bubble and was oblivious to the potential danger. Today, as a parent, I am astonished she took that chance – yet incredibly thankful.

Ultimately, I did not go to the Australian National University, and I didn’t meet the student afterwards, but her act remains etched in my mind her amazing act of human compassion. I hope life has returned her good deed tenfold. Our society requires more individuals who show such kindness.